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title: Why kids act out
description: "Kids often act out because they’re struggling with something they don’t understand or don’t know how to put into words. Learn more reasons why kids act out. \n"
slug: child-acting-out
author: Julie Rawe
reviewer: Ellen Braaten, PhD
published: '2020-07-01T15:33:51.961Z'
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source_url: https://www.understood.org/en/articles/child-acting-out
lang: en
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# Why kids act out

Angry outbursts may seem to come out of nowhere. But kids often act out because they’re struggling with something they don’t understand or don’t know how to put into words. 

Here are common reasons why kids act out:

- **Anxiety: **Kids often act out when they’re anxious about big changes, like a new baby at home or a death in the family. Smaller things can cause anxiety too, like a test or trouble with a friend.
- **Changes in routine:** Kids may respond in anger if they feel like they don’t know what’s happening now or what will happen next.
- **Trouble with self-control: **Some kids act out because they struggle to control their impulses. This makes it hard for them to follow directions.
- **Trouble with a school subject:** When kids refuse to do schoolwork, that could be their way of saying “I don’t know *how* to do this.” 

Kids who act out at the end of the day may have spent the school day trying to hide their struggles. They act out to show they’re struggling and can’t find the right words to use. 

Learn more about why some kids [fall apart after school](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/why-some-kids-fall-when-they-get-home-from-school).

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