--- title: 'Retention: Why kids are held back' description: You may be aware of the pros and cons of repeating a grade, but do you know why kids are held back? Learn more about retention and what you can do about it. slug: retention-why-kids-are-held-back author: Amanda Morin reviewer: Bob Cunningham, EdM published: '2019-08-05T15:08:27.240Z' thumbnail: https://cdn-images.understood.org/p0qf7j048i0q/2A62C134985B433CBEEEE7C62C828242/c9a1a5e274675e8250262cc0e007ad61/27505600.jpg source_url: https://www.understood.org/en/articles/retention-why-kids-are-held-back lang: en --- # Retention: Why kids are held back Holding kids back a grade — also known as “retention” — isn’t common. But if the school is considering having your child repeat a year (or if you are), there are some important basics to know about it. ## Why schools may recommend repeating a grade When kids haven’t built the academic skills needed for the next grade, the school may advise holding them back. The idea is that an extra year will help them catch up. But sometimes a child’s academic struggles are just one factor that the school is considering. Additional reasons that the school may cite can include: - A child is very young for their grade or socially immature. - A child has missed a lot of school due to serious illness. - A child doesn’t reach the performance level expected for moving to the next grade. Some states also have [third-grade retention laws](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/third-grade-retention-laws-what-you-need-to-know) that say kids have to stay back if they can’t read at a certain level this year. However, some of these states may make exceptions. The school can tell you how your state’s law handles third-grade retention when a child has a known learning difference. ## Current thinking on retention Recent research shows that, for the most part, holding kids back a grade isn’t the best practice. The National Association of School Psychologists (NASP) reports that some kids do better in school the first year or two after being held back. But it also says that this effect doesn’t last. NASP also points out that kids with learning and thinking differences may not do better at all unless there are new, specific interventions in place. When kids are held back because they’re struggling to learn, more of the same kind of teaching doesn’t help. Moving up a grade with new learning supports in place may be a better solution. ## What you can do Parents play an important role in their child’s education. They have the right to be involved in the decision-making process. If the school suggests that your child repeat a year, it’s a good idea to sit down with the teacher to find out why. You can also ask what changes would be made in the ways your child is taught if repeating a grade. It’s important to have a plan in place that you believe will help your child succeed. When you meet with your child’s teacher, you can also discuss what alternatives there might be to retention. Some questions you might bring up: - Are there new accommodations that could increase your child’s success in the classroom next year? - Do your child’s IEP goals and services need to be revised? - Are [summer learning programs](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/summer-learning-programs-for-kids-who-learn-and-think-differently) an available option? - Would [one-on-one tutoring](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/tutoring-options-pros-and-cons) be helpful in making sure your child can move up to the next grade? It may help to go to this meeting prepared with a working knowledge of the [pros and cons of retention](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/repeating-a-grade-pros-and-cons). And even if you disagree with your child’s teacher, it’s important to build a good relationship. --- ## Explore related topics and articles - [Repeating a grade: Pros and cons](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/repeating-a-grade-pros-and-cons) - Are you wondering if your child should repeat a grade? See pros and cons of repeating a grade, or being held back, for kids with learning and thinking differences. - [The school says my child needs to repeat third grade. What can I do?](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/the-school-says-my-child-needs-to-repeat-third-grade-what-can-i-do) - Teachers often refer to third grade as being the year for transitioning from learning to read to reading to learn. Thats because up until third grade, students are mostly focused on building basic skills. Once they hit third grade, students are expected to have these skills in place and apply them t - [With IEPs, good people can disagree](https://www.understood.org/en/articles/with-ieps-good-people-can-disagree) - Zoey is a perky, talkative third grader. She regularly updates school staff on her afterschool plans, how many times she has seen them in the hall that day and which kids are absent from class. Her worldview is completely unique. As the speech pathologist at her school, I began seeing Zoey in kinder --- ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://www.understood.org/en/articles/retention-why-kids-are-held-back#webpage","url":"https://www.understood.org/en/articles/retention-why-kids-are-held-back","description":"You may be aware of the pros and cons of repeating a grade, but do you know why kids are held back? 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