Talking and understanding
Learn how to improve communication skills, self-advocate, and better understand others. Get tips for talking about learning and thinking differences like ADHD, dyslexia, and dyscalculia. Find conversation starters that can help.
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Tips and strategies
- Quick tipRole-play conversations.
Some people need more practice with conversations. Role-play different scenarios to help make conversations easier.
- Quick tipPractice “stop, look, and listen.”
Show kids how to stop every few sentences and look to see how others in the conversation are reacting.
- Quick tipUse phrases that show attention.
People want to know that others are paying attention when they talk. Use words or phrases like “right” or “that’s great.” Mix them up to avoid saying the same thing over and over.
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