Homeschooling kids who learn and think differently: What you need to know
At a Glance
Homeschooling is legal in every state.
Each state has its own homeschooling requirements.
Homeschooling can be a good option for some kids who learn and think differently, but there are pros and cons.
You’ve probably heard of kids who are homeschooled. But have you wondered how homeschooling works and if it’s right for your child?
Experts estimate that as many as 2.3 million kids ages 5 to 17 are homeschooled in the United States. They receive some or all of their education outside of private or public school.
The reasons parents choose to homeschool vary. Some do so for religious reasons. Others want a certain education for their child. And many choose homeschooling because their kids struggle in traditional school settings.
If you’re thinking about homeschooling your child, here’s what you need to know.
State laws on homeschooling
Homeschooling is regulated by state law and is allowed in all 50 states (as well as all U.S. territories). However, each state has its own legal rules and requirements.
Some states have strict laws and require a lot of paperwork to homeschool. Others are very lax. Here are some of the requirements you might see:
Notice: Most, but not all, states require you to notify the state or your local school district if you’re going to homeschool.
Parent qualifications: Some states require you to have a certain level of education, like a
high school diploma, if you want to homeschool your child.
Record keeping: Some states require you to keep records, like grades and attendance, and submit them.
Instruction and core subjects: Many states require you to have homeschool classes for a minimum number of days or hours per year, or to teach your child core subjects, like reading and math.
Tests: Several states require homeschooled kids to take
or other assessments every few years.
If you decide to homeschool your child, you may wonder if your child can get
services from your local school. The answer depends on the state and school district where you live.
Under federal law, all states (and local school districts) are
required to find and evaluate
homeschooled kids who may need special education. However, they can choose whether to require kids to attend public school to receive those services.
A few states offer traditional
to homeschooled kids. An IEP entitles your child to services, just like in a public school.
Other states treat homeschooled kids the same as
kids in private school
. In these states, local school districts will typically offer a
, which is like an IEP but provides less. Under a service plan, your child might attend public school twice a week for special instruction in reading or math. But services like
might not be available.
Finally, some state laws don’t require school districts to provide special education to homeschooled kids at all. In these states, if parents want services they have to enroll kids in public school. Some states let individual school districts decide whether to provide services to homeschoolers.
In addition to school services, public schools have extracurricular clubs and sports, and your child may want to participate. Many states allow homeschooled kids to take part. If your child is interested, reach out to your local school district.
Pros and cons of homeschooling
Once you’ve researched the law on homeschooling in your state, it’s time to think through the decision. Homeschooling can be a good option for some kids who learn and think differently. But it’s important to be aware of the pros and cons.
Here are some of the key factors to weigh.
Cutting through the red tape
Pro: Sometimes, getting a school to provide services or
takes a lot of effort. You must follow a
. By contrast, at home you don’t need school approval for
or accommodations like frequent breaks. Homeschooling lets you focus on your child, not on wrangling with the school.
Con: When homeschooling, you may not have access to free school services. And some accommodations like assistive technology cost money. There may also be paperwork. In states with strict homeschooling laws, you may have to keep and file records. Some states even require you to submit an instructional plan before the school year.
For help, you can reach out to local homeschoolers to find out how they manage paperwork requirements. You can also connect with other parents in our
Taking on responsibility for your child’s learning
Pro: With homeschooling, you have the freedom and flexibility to try different methods to help your child learn. For example, if you want to use a specific reading program, you can. You don’t have to ask the school, which may not offer the program anyway.
Con: Homeschooling is a big responsibility that takes full commitment. From the start, you’ll need to make a lot of decisions about your child’s education. If you aren’t fond of teaching or don’t have a lot of patience, it may not be the right choice for you.
If you’re concerned about the challenge, ask others for help. Hiring someone to teach or tutor your child at home may be an option. Many parents use
Tailoring learning to your child’s interests
Pro: With homeschooling, you can choose what subjects to teach your child. You can spend time nurturing
strengths and interests
. If your child loves dinosaurs, you may spend all day at the museum.
Con: Schools have many more resources than parents have at home. Your child may not have access to clubs, field trips, and special classes, missing out on different perspectives from teachers and other students.
You may have to find ways to expose your child to new potential interests. That could mean paying for things like acting class or museum passes. Or it could mean advocating with the local school district to let your child participate in clubs or sports. Local homeschool groups may also offer activities, sports, and field trips.
Having a flexible schedule or setting
Pro: Homeschooling lets you set a flexible schedule and setting for your child’s learning. For instance, if your child isn’t a morning person, you might have class in the afternoon. You can hold class at the dining room table, a park, a church, or even a friend’s home with other homeschooled kids — whatever works best for your child.
Con: Some kids thrive on structure. Your child may have trouble settling in and staying focused if there’s a change in schedule or too much flexibility.
If needed, you can introduce more structure into a homeschool environment. For example, you may teach certain subjects at the same time each day.
Pro: Your homeschooled child may have less day-to-day interaction with other kids. That can be a good thing if there was
bullying at school
, your child struggles with behavior, or your child easily gives in to peer pressure.
Con: Being social and making friends are crucial to a child’s emotional development. Less contact with kids means fewer chances to
practice social skills.
If you decide to homeschool, you may need to take extra steps to make sure your child spends time with other kids. One way is to connect with other parents who are homeschooling. There are also homeschooling communities across the country where your child can socialize. Learn more about
how to help your homeschooled child build social skills