Managing emotions
Learn why people struggle with managing emotions. Find out how ADHD, learning disabilities, and anxiety impact emotions. Get tips on dealing with anger, sadness, and frustration.
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The first step to help your child calm down
Learn how to look calm even if you don’t feel calm — and why this is the single most important step in managing your child’s tantrums or outbursts.
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- How to help your child get emotional support at school
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- The difference between disruptive behavior disorders and ADHD
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- 5 factors of emotional intelligence
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- Treatment for mental health issues
- 8 ways I manage anxiety from my learning disability
- 6 ways kids might respond to an evaluation result
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- How I learned to be OK with things just being OK
- What should I do when my child says “I’m bad”
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- Why kids grieve in unexpected ways
- Trouble with self-control: Conversation starters to use with your child’s teacher
- How SEL helps you as a teacher
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- 3 ways I model resilience for my students
- Why teens and tweens may be frustrated with school — and what you can say to help
- My sixth grader is anxious about school. What can I do?
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- What to say when your middle-schooler gets frustrated
- What to say when your preschooler gets frustrated
- What to say when your grade-schooler gets frustrated
- How competence anchors can help kids overcome fear of failure in school
- Good stress vs. bad stress for kids
- 6 common fears for kids who learn and think differently
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- What is social-emotional learning?
- What is self-control?
- Why some kids fall apart after school
- How to help middle-schoolers gain self-control
- 5 steps to take If you think your child is depressed
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- The 3 types of self-control
- ADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD)
- Sensory processing challenges fact sheet
- What is sensory integration therapy
- 5 tips for taking a mutual time-out with your child
- 6 tips for talking to your child after a tantrum or meltdown
- How to use proactive praise with your child
- How to show empathy to your students with compassionate curiosity
- Video: How meditation helps poet LeDerick Horne manage attention and emotions
- Building self-compassion skills
- What pushes your buttons?
- School trauma and the fight, flight, freeze response
- School was hard for me. Now my child is struggling, and it’s bringing up a lot.
- Download: Help your child get ready for an event
- How to make a sensory bottle
- Why some kids get overexcited
- What is perseveration?
- Trouble with self-regulation: What to know
- What causes trouble with self-control?
- How to help kids cope when they get upset
- A simple breathing meditation for the ADHD tornado in your head
- Download: Holiday behavior worksheet for your child
- Self-care for kids: 6 ways to self-regulate
- ADHD and sensory overload
- ADHD and aggression
- Understanding impulsivity in kids
- Download: Sensory-friendly holiday checklist
- A day in the life of a child with sensory processing challenges
- 5 tough situations for kids with sensory processing challenges
- How scary news can impact kids who learn and think differently
- The difference between tantrums and meltdowns
- When kids grab, push, and play too rough: What it can mean
- Download: Feelings wheel
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- ADHD and anger
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