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Signs Your Child May Have Too Much Homework

By Amanda Morin

Sometimes, even with good habits or a homework contract in place, kids who learn and think differently may have more work than they can handle.

The list below can help you figure out if your grade-schooler or middle-schooler is struggling with the homework load.

Kids with too much homework might:

  • Put off doing homework, to the point of not having time to finish it.

  • Not want to go to school or feel unprepared for class because homework isn’t done.

  • Ask for help before trying to do homework on their own.

  • Ask for help even if they understand the assignment and could do it on their own.

  • Not accept help when you offer it.

  • Count on you to make corrections instead of just checking their work.

  • Say they’ll finish homework in the morning before school.

  • Stay up past bedtime to get homework done.

  • Keep missing assignments.

  • “Forget” to bring homework home.

  • Drop afterschool activities because there’s not enough time.

  • Complain about headaches or other physical issues during homework time.

  • Cry about doing homework.

  • Argue about getting started on homework.

  • Yell at you when you try to help. (“Leave me alone!” “Why aren’t you helping me the way I need you to?”)

  • Worry about the consequences of not completing assignments.

  • Get angry, defensive, or upset when you ask about homework.

  • Not have (or make) time to hang out with friends.

  • Make negative comments about the work. (“Algebra is so dumb.” “I’m never going to need to know this!”)

  • Make negative comments about the teacher. (“The teacher is too hard on us.”)

  • Make negative comments about themselves. (“I’m so dumb. I’ll never be able to get all this work done.”)

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