Confidence and self-esteem
Find out how to build confidence and self-esteem for people with ADHD, dyslexia, and other learning disabilities. Help kids identify their strengths and develop a growth mindset.
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Tips and strategies
- Quick tipTalk openly about challenges.
When someone is struggling with self-esteem, talk about things you find challenging and work to overcome. Acknowledging your own challenges helps others open up about theirs.
- Quick tipGive praise that’s honest and specific.
Acknowledge kids’ effort. Praise them for completing different parts of a project and ask what they might try next time to help meet their goal. That’s the kind of praise that builds self-esteem.
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